SELECIONANDO UM FUTUR ESPOSO

                                               (“selecionando”é excelente palavra!)

 

0. ESTA ESCOLHA É IMPORTANTÍSSIMA!

 

          Proverbs 12:4 A virtuous woman [is] a crown to her husband: but she

          that maketh ashamed [is] as rottenness in his bones.

 

          Malachi 2:16 For the LORD, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth

          putting away: for [one] covereth violence with his garment,

          saith the LORD of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit,

          that ye deal not treacherously.

 

          Matthew 19:8 He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of

          your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from

          the beginning it was not so.

           9  And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife,

          except [it be] for fornication, and shall marry another,

          committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put

          away doth commit adultery.

 

 

1. BUSQUE DEUS

          Proverbs 19:14 House and riches [are] the inheritance of fathers: and

          a prudent wife [is] from the LORD.

 

2. NÃO COMECE POR “ATRAÇÃO”, “PALAVRAS E VOZ ENCANTADORAS”.

          Proverbs 31:30 Favour [is] deceitful, and beauty [is] vain: [but] a

          woman [that] feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.

 

          Salmo 37:4 Deleita-te também no Senhor, e Ele te concederá o que

          deseja o teu coração.

 

 

3. MAS COMEÇE SELECIONANDO QUEM TENHA O CARÁTER DE CRISTO:

 

- ELE É SALVO? MESMO?

          2 Corinthians 6:14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers:

          for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness?

          and what communion hath light with darkness?

 

- TEME AO SENHOR?

          Proverbs 31:30 Favour [is] deceitful, and beauty [is] vain: [but] a

          woman [that] feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.

 

          Proverbs 1:7 The fear of the LORD [is] the beginning of knowledge:

          [but] fools despise wisdom and instruction.

 

- AMA E HONRA AO PAI E À MÃE?

          Exodus 20:12 Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be

          long upon the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee.

 

- GOSTA DE CRIANÇAS, AMARÁ E SACRIFICIAR-SE-Á PELOS FILHOS?

          2 Samuel 18:33 And the king was much moved, and went up to the

          chamber

          over the gate, and wept: and as he went, thus he said, O my

          son Absalom, my son, my son Absalom! would God I had died

         for thee, O Absalom, my son, my son!

 

- GOSTA DE ANIMAIS, TRATÁ-OS BEM?

          Proverbs 12:10 A righteous [man] regardeth the life of his beast: but

          the tender mercies of the wicked [are] cruel.

 

- É MISERICORDIOSO PARA COM OS POBRES?

          Proverbs 21:13 Whoso stoppeth his ears at the cry of the poor, he also

          shall cry himself, but shall not be heard.

 

- OUVE CONSELHOS?

          Proverbs 12:15 The way of a fool [is] right in his own eyes: but he

          that hearkeneth unto counsel [is] wise.

 

- AFASTA-SE DOS MAUS E ACOMPANHA-SE SÓ DOS BONS?

          Proverbs 13:20 He that walketh with wise [men] shall be wise: but a

          companion of fools shall be destroyed.

 

          Psalms 1:1 Blessed [is] the man that walketh not in the counsel of

          the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth

          in the seat of the scornful.

           2  But his delight [is] in the law of the LORD; and in his

          law doth he meditate day and night.

           3  And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of

          water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his season; his leaf

          also shall not wither; and whatsoever he doeth shall

          prosper.

 

- É CONTROLADO E MANSO, OU IRACUNDO?

          Proverbs 14:29 [He that is] slow to wrath [is] of great understanding:

          but [he that is] hasty of spirit exalteth folly.

 

É TRABALHADOR? OU PREGUIÇOSO?

          Proverbs 6:6 Go to the ant, thou sluggard; consider her ways, and be

          wise:

           7  Which having no guide, overseer, or ruler,

           8  Provideth her meat in the summer, [and] gathereth her

          food in the harvest.

           9  How long wilt thou sleep, O sluggard? when wilt thou

          arise out of thy sleep?

           10  [Yet] a little sleep, a little slumber, a little

          folding of the hands to sleep:

 

          Proverbs 22:29 Seest thou a man diligent in his business? he shall

          stand before kings; he shall not stand before mean [men].

 

-TEM BONS AMIGOS, É BOM AMIGO?

          Proverbs 17:9 He that covereth a transgression seeketh love; but he

          that repeateth a matter separateth [very] friends.

 

          Proverbs 17:17 A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for

          adversity.

 

- COMO GANHA E QUER GANHAR DINHEIRO?

          Proverbs 15:27 He that is greedy of gain troubleth his own house; but

          he that hateth gifts shall live.

 

- CONTROLA SEUS LÁBIOS?

          Proverbs 17:27 He that hath knowledge spareth his words: [and] a man

          of understanding is of an excellent spirit.

           28  Even a fool, when he holdeth his peace, is counted

          wise: [and] he that shutteth his lips [is esteemed] a man of

          understanding.

 

 

4. EVITE RADICALMENTE:

 

- MULHERENGO

          Proverbs 6:27 Can a man take fire in his bosom, and his clothes not

          be burned?

           28  Can one go upon hot coals, and his feet not be burned?

           29  So he that goeth in to his neighbour's wife; whosoever

          toucheth her shall not be innocent.

 

- QUEM BEBE BEBIDA ALCOÓLICA. (NO COMEÇO “SOCIALMENTE”, DEPOIS...)

          Proverbs 23:29 Who hath woe? who hath sorrow? who hath contentions?

          who hath babbling? who hath wounds without cause? who hath

          redness of eyes?

           30  They that tarry long at the wine; they that go to seek

          mixed wine.

 

-IRACUNDO

          Proverbs 22:24 Make no friendship with an angry man; and with a

          furious man thou shalt not go:

           25  Lest thou learn his ways, and get a snare to thy soul.

 

 

 

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- MELHOR SÓ QUE NÃO BEM CASADO:

          Proverbs 12:4 A virtuous woman [is] a crown to her husband: but she

          that maketh ashamed [is] as rottenness in his bones.

 

- PROCURE A MAIOR BÊNÇÃO DA TERRA:

          Proverbs 18:22 [Whoso] findeth a wife findeth a good [thing], and

          obtaineth favour of the LORD.